Since this is Father’s
Day, I find myself thinking about my Dad and the lessons he taught me. It wasn’t hard to decide the most important
of them: “Do what your Mother tells you!”
And she always tells me
“Dear, you have to tell the parishioners where you went when you go away for a
weekend.”
I said “What on earth
for? We have two priests here.”
“Because I don’t want to
hear any complaints,” my mother replied!
Her advice was good, and
not just because it avoids complaints. It’s
good because my absences can help us talk about the Christian attitude to
travel and holidays.
This is a good time for
that, since in our second reading St. Paul says whether we are at home or away,
we seek to please the Lord.
(Of course his overall
message is not about travelling—the Apostle is talking about the trip from
earth to Heaven—but his words lead us to a very simple lesson as summer approaches. Whether we are at home or away we must
continue to live the Christian life.)
It’s tempting to see our
holidays as total freedom—no obligations, including Sunday Mass—except you
can’t go on holiday from something so central to our existence. Some of us have
tried taking holidays from exercise, healthy eating, and disciplined sleep,
which is nothing but a losing formula.
Pope Benedict was speaking
to priests when he said rest, too, is pastoral work. He quotes the words of
Jesus "Come away by yourselves to a lonely place, and rest a while"
(Mk 6: 31). The Pope even says we priests need to find and to have the humility,
the courage to rest.
All of us can benefit from his wisdom if we
understand that it means vacations, restful Sundays, and even daily breaks are
part of the healthy human existence that God wills.
We need, wherever
possible, not only to find rest in our vacations but also renewal. Vacations can be a time for a period of daily
prayer as a family that may be difficult in ordinary circumstances. This may be a time to say the Rosary after
supper because—for once—all the kids are at the table and none of them has a
soccer practice. Depending where you
take a holiday, you may be able to attend daily Mass—especially if there’s a
parish nearby where Mass is later in the morning or in the evening.
Reading is an important
part of holidays for many people, including me.
I was really shocked by an article in The Globe and Mail recently.
The headline was “I Have Forgotten How to Read.” It wasn’t by someone with a head injury or
other ailment, but a piece by an author who had finally recognized that his lifestyle
and the impact of the internet had slowly robbed him of the pleasure of curling
up for a few hours with a good book.
Having the right book
with you on a vacation is a key part to rediscovering the joys of reading. Having the right spiritual book can help
reignite our faith during our vacation from all the usual distractions of
life. There may be many
parishioners—judging from sales in our little book shop, and loans from our
library—who have never read a spiritual book.
If you’re one of those I invite you to check out the books in gift shop and
the library today. If you don’t see
something that catches your interest, just ask me, and I will suggest something
you will truly enjoy beside a lake or on a plane.
Whenever possible we
should look for blessings when we travel—new friends, new ideas, new
knowledge. And that brings us back to my
recent travels. In less than two weeks I
was in three dioceses; and in each of them I was reminded that our parish
exists within a communion of churches; we are part of something much bigger
than ourselves.
When we holiday outside
of Vancouver we get a small taste of this as we discover that things are done
differently elsewhere—sometimes better, sometimes worse—but always in the great
communion of the Catholic Church.
Parishioners come back with ideas, and sometimes even with a sense of
relief! But we are always strengthened
to know that our local community is but a part of the great Church of Christ.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus
talks to us about the kingdom of God. In
another place he tells us that the kingdom of God is among us—right here, right
at Christ the Redeemer parish. But today he reminds us that the kingdom also
thrives and flourishes on a grand scale, offering shade and shelter to all
people.
Everything we do, from
work to play, is part of our human and spiritual growth, and part of our
contribution to building up the Kingdom of God on earth.
And certainly our labours
for a better world are a key aspect of this. Every so often you’ll hear in the
media about “anti-abortion” groups.
While there may be such groups, I’ve never really met them. Pro-life groups
and pro-life people—including those who support today’s second collection—are promoting
the culture of life.
Our goal must be greater
than ending abortion. As our Prayer for Reverence for Life shows, we praise God
for life at every stage, and commit ourselves to its defense.
Few things are more
important to the Kingdom than the family, and on Father’s Day we should note
that a Kingdom needs citizens; without the family, and the important work of
fathers, God’s plan for the world could never succeed.
So whether we are at
home, or away, let us make it our aim to please God in all things, and to build
a kingdom of truth, justice and love.
Some of the ideas in this homily made their way to the Sunday bulletin the following week.