Father’s
Day is a fine time to mention that my Dad taught me many things. Some of them
were simple, like riding a bike. But others were more complicated, like
rhetorical questions.
What?
You don’t know what a rhetorical question is? Then your upbringing was quite
different from mine. My father taught me rhetorical questions when I was still
quite young.
Here’s
an example: “Do you think I’m made of
money?” (I heard that one fairly often.)
Another
one was “Do you want to watch TV after dinner or not?” Which loosely translated
meant “So are you going to load the
dishwasher?”
You
get the idea—rhetorical questions were the questions my father asked when he
didn’t really expect an answer. Actually, my mother also used them sometimes,
like “Who do you think is going to
make your bed?”
Our
first reading today reminds us that God is a Father, too, and he uses the
occasional rhetorical question Himself. Did you notice what he asked Job?
“Where were you when I laid the
foundations of the earth?” Do you think God is waiting for Job’s reply?
Obviously not—and of course that’s exactly what a rhetorical question is—a
question that’s asked to make a point, not to get an answer.
Just
in case Job misses the point, God carries on with another rhetorical question.
He asks Job who kept the sea behind closed doors—in other words, who decided
the limits of the ocean, who stopped the world from being swept by one great
tidal wave?
And
if you think this puts Job on the spot, take a look at the rest of chapter 38.
God asks no fewer than twenty such questions. Can you tell the clouds what to
do? Have you visited the storehouses of the snow?
Of
course I feel sorry for Job—how would you
like to have a debate with God? But I don’t think God’s doing this to make Job
feel small—God’s doing it so that we’ll know how big He is.
Do
you remember hearing about the man who said “When I was seven, I thought my Dad
knew everything. By the time I turned 16 I discovered he didn't know anything.
Now I'm 30, and it's amazing how much he's learned.”
Well,
that’s the way a lot of us are with God—only we get stuck at the adolescent
stage. We don’t move on to appreciate God’s wisdom and his power, either
because we’re too busy rebelling, or just too busy, period. Or maybe we’re just
too scared to think straight.
Isn’t
that what happened to the disciples in the boat that night? They knew Jesus well—by this point in Mark’s
Gospel Jesus has already cast out an unclean spirit from a man in the synagogue,
healed Peter’s mother in law, cast out demons, cleansed a leper, made a
paralyzed man walk, and healed a man with a withered hand. How could they still
say “Teacher, don’t you care that we are perishing?”
Surely
one answer is fear. The disciples knew better, but they were terrified. One of
the founders of AA said that fear is the chief activator of our defects. It
clouds our thinking—whether about ourselves, others or God Himself.
This
incident in the Gospel is particularly dramatic, but the story is as old as
humanity. Today’s Psalm tells the same story with a different cast of
characters. The seafarers of the Middle East saw God at work as they sailed the
seas; they were grateful to Him for the power of the wind that propelled their
ships, and the rain that gave them fresh water. But when the waves started to
pound and the ship began to toss, their courage melted.
However,
like the disciples, the sailors had just enough energy left to cry out to the
Lord. And He stilled the storm and hushed the waves, just as He did for the
disciples.
So
what is it that stops us from asking
the Lord to calm the storm of our lives? I’ve already mentioned fear; Jesus
mentions something else: a lack of faith. If we don’t believe that God cares,
we’re not going to disturb his sleep. If we think he’s not interested in our
cries for help, we’ll keep them to ourselves.
And
yet our Christian faith teaches that it is normal
for a Christian to experience peace in every circumstance. God’s inspired Word
tells us so in two of St. Paul’s letters.
In the fourth chapter of Paul’s letter to the Philippians, he writes
“Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with
thanksgiving, make your requests known to God.”
And
then comes the promise: “Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding
will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” (Phil 4:7, NAB) To the Thessalonians he writes “may the Lord
of peace himself give you peace at all times and in all ways.” (2 Thess 3:16).
One
thing’s for sure: St. Paul believes Jesus cares that we’re perishing.
So
far we’ve seen how fear makes us lose sight of Jesus, while a lack of faith
stops us from even looking for Him. But there is another reason why we let life
toss our boats around. We lose our peace because we don’t turn to Jesus; we
forget he’s right beside us.
Prayer
is the shortest path to peace. Not the kind of prayer where we ask God to
change things, but the kind where we speak with him about our troubles.
This
kind of prayer is a conversation. It helps us answer those two questions Jesus
puts to his disciples in the boat:
“Why
are you afraid?”
“Have
you still no faith?”
As
with all rhetorical questions, Jesus already knows the answers. The disciples
don’t yet know Him well enough, for all his signs and wonders. That’s clear
from what they say to one another. “Who is this man whom the wind and the sea
obey?’
At
least we know the answer to their
question. We have seen the Lord’s ultimate deed of power in the Resurrection—a
sign that makes calming the storm seem insignificant. But we still need to know
Him better, in order to put our trust in Him. And we need to know ourselves
better, too, if we’re to overcome our fears and receive the gift of peace in
every circumstance.
Prayer
helps us know and trust the Lord, and opens us to knowing our own hearts as
well. It is the path to peace.
In
church this morning there are young people heading out to the job market in an
uncertain economy. There are high school
graduates waiting for the final word from universities and colleges. There are
grade sevens looking nervously towards high school.
There
are parishioners mourning the loss of a loved one, or facing serious illness.
Some face unemployment, others worry about investments. And some of us even
worry that things are going too well,
and wonder when disaster will catch up with us.
We
can start now—whatever our circumstances—to seek peace, in faith, by prayer.
For
which one of us doesn’t want that peace that surpasses all understanding?
And
that, in case you didn’t notice, is a rhetorical question. Thanks, Dad!
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