Jane
was born in Hamilton, Ontario, the third and youngest child of Sheldon and
Jessie (née McInnes) Banwell. She had a lifelong love for the city of her
birth, to which she returned for some years before moving to British Columbia
after the death of her husband Neil McCabe Smith, who died in 2011.
Jane
and Neil had five children, Gregory, Sheila, Nancy, Stephen and Kevin, whose
marriages brought David, Dennis, Nicole and Erin into the family. They were
blessed with ten grandchildren, Jennifer, Geoffrey, Kimberly, Sarah Jane,
Jessie, William, Neil, Alix, Adam, and Charlotte. Jen’s marriage to Kevin gave
Jane two lovely great-grandchildren, Quinn and Asher.
She
was predeceased by her brother Douglas, sister Margaret Rymal, and son-in-law
Dennis Webster.
During
her years in B.C., Jane was an active member of Christ the Redeemer Parish, enjoying
many parish activities and the Catholic Women’s League. She joined St. Pius X
Parish when she could no longer drive, returning to Christ the Redeemer this
year when she moved to Amica Lions Gate just two blocks from the church.
While
she would want to be remembered first as a devoted wife and mother, Jane had an
amazing capacity for friendship, treasuring long-time relationships and making
new dear friends at both Banff Court and Amica.
Her years of physical decline were made much happier and
healthier by the dedicated care of Dr. Tim Kostamo, Dr. Klaudia Biskupska, and
Dr. Nicole Barre, whose regular visits to Amica were a key source of peace
during the last eight months for both Jane and her family members.
The kindness, competence and generosity of the nurses, staff
and caregivers at Amica Lions Gate was deeply appreciated by Jane and her
family members. She found both physical and emotional security in their 24/7
attention, and her final days were blessed by incomparable tenderness and
professional attention. Amica calls its caregivers “Resident Care Partners,”
but the family will remember them more as angels in human form.
Jane celebrated Thanksgiving with a large family brunch on
Sunday, received Holy Communion and the Anointing of the Sick from her son and
pastor that evening, and by the evening of Thanksgiving Day was clearly
failing. She had at least one of her children with her from then on. On Tuesday
afternoon, they gathered for the recitation of the Church’s prayers for the
dying.
During the night on Wednesday, she briefly opened her eyes
and managed a slight smile. Jane died on the morning of her 87th
birthday, October 16, as her two eldest children stood praying beside her bed.
The funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Tuesday,
October 29, by the Most Reverend J. Michael Miller, Archbishop of Vancouver,
with funeral prayers Monday evening at 7:30 p.m., both at Christ the Redeemer
Parish, 599 Keith Road, West Vancouver.
Console one another, then, with these words.
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Thessalonians 4:18
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